Tuesday, September 27, 2011

Soccer

Damon and Allie just finished soccer for the fall. This is Damon's third year playing. He is getting better and really seems to enjoy it. Soccer may just be the sport he sticks with. Allie...well, Allie had fun dressing up in shin guards and cleats and jogging after the ball. But at least she didn't fight me about going. 

Between the two of them, we went to 3-4 soccer games a week. It took up a lot of time, and sometimes I did NOT look forward to going. Only because Jeff couldn't make it to some of them and it was hard by myself. Especially if I tried to do something daring, like take a few pictures.

I love this shot of Damon. You can imagine he is the star of the team when you see an action shot like this. I hope he feels that way (although he told me he likes playing defense and is not good at offense).


Allie liked playing goalie. Once I had to untangle her from the net when the rest of the kids were at the other end of the field. That pretty much says it all.


This is the best action shot I could get of her going after the ball. Amazingly, she scored a goal this season. I didn't see it (I wasn't there), but Jeff said she was in the right place at the right time. 


What do the rest of us do at the games? Here's a little taste. Kyla looks fabulous. She may have been going clubbing later, I'm not really sure.


Carter wandered around watching all the other kids, usually throwing things in the air to impress them all.


And McKay sucked his thumb. He was usually tired and not especially fond of soccer. But he's a good baby and he puts up with a lot. Just as #5 should. 



Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Six big months



Wow, is McKayters really six months old? (Insert cliche here about how time is flying and I'm getting old).


He's starting to make that moose look small.

Probably the biggest development in McKay's young life is that he has now been introduced to the world of solid food. The first time or two didn't go over so well. He gagged like a bulimic before finally swallowing his rice cereal. Since then, however, he has done much better (maybe he likes oatmeal better?), and he would like to taste anything I put in his mouth. I think he's ready to start on sweet potatoes and squash this week. If I can make it to the grocery store.


He is also sitting up really well, and doesn't usually fall over unless he is pushed. I'm not sure whether he is teething or if he just found his tongue, but he has been making this face all the time.


Carter has been opened to the world of "older sibling," and is always trying to make McKay laugh. It's one of my favorite things right now. I'm so glad these two have each other. They're going to need it if they're going to survive Mommy Kyla...


(A quick Kyla story from today to illustrate the above point. I was mopping the kitchen floor, when I heard Kyla ask Carter, "do you want to play type rope?" I looked up to see the broom balanced between the counter and the island. Carter gave his standard "no," which sounds like "mo," and another catastrophe was avoided.)

This is probably my favorite picture from this month. It was at Damon's soccer game. I love that Jeff and McKay are so engaged. And I love that Carter is watching the soccer game with feigned interest. And I love his blond hair that I buzzed off. Dang me!

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Perspective

Reliving 9/11 over the weekend with my family was a good experience. Damon wasn't born when we were attacked 10 years ago, but he couldn't get enough of the coverage. He watched the towers get hit, and then collapse, dozens of times. And watching all the footage brought back a lot of memories for me as well, especially once we turned on "Where Were You (when the world stopped turning)?" by Alan Jackson and danced in our living room. Ten years ago, we all reexamined our priorities and put those things that were most important first in our lives. And this week, I was reminded again that my perspective on life can sometimes get a little skewed.

I focus too much on all the hard things, the bad things, and not enough of how blessed that I am. And so I have been mentally composing a list of all the things I would typically complain about, realizing that all these things are really blessings.

The fact that we go through so much toilet paper means that 5 of the 7 of us are potty-trained.

My flabby stomach and chunky thighs mean that I have been able to carry 5 babies inside of me.

All the rooms in my house that I am constantly having to clean mean that we have plenty of space to live and grow.

The food I scrub off the table and chairs means we have enough to eat.

The constant chaos I am surrounded by means I am never lonely.

The grass that needs to be mowed every week means that it's not winter and the ground isn't covered in snow.

The fact that McKay had a fever of 101.2 last night doesn't worry me, because he isn't tiny enough for that to be a concern.

All the clothes I own that don't fit (either too big or too small) mean that the baby weight from the last two years is coming off (and that I need to keep working on it).

The fact that I have to make lunch for Jeff, as well as the kids, means that he wants to come home for lunch instead of spending it with someone else.

The fact that the girls are still giggling and laughing in their rooms at 10:00 pm means that they love each other and like being together.

All the homework I have to nag the kids about means that they are back in school.

The fact that I have to carry two heavy boys around most everywhere means that they are close enough to one day be best of friends.


What kinds of things are you thankful for, that you might not have realized were blessings before?

Thursday, September 08, 2011

Sticks out like a...

...sore thumb? Where did that saying come from, anyway? Because as I sit here thinking about things that "stick out," a sore thumb is probably one of the very LAST things that would come to mind. A broken thumb, perhaps. But not a sore thumb. Sorry. For the purpose of this post, I'm going with "sticks out like a black eye." Something that actually seems to make a little bit of sense. And is relevant to my children, who are not currently experiencing thumb pain.

The story I'm about to relate happened two weeks ago, before Jeff was fulfilling his John Wesley Powell fantasies and rafting down the Colorado River, aka the Grand Canyon. I am just now able to talk about it. One morning, McKay had just awoken from his nap and Kyla asked if she could go in and talk to him. I told her yes, even though I knew that "talk to him" really meant "crawl in his crib with him," because I was doing something else and needed to buy a few minutes before I went to get him out of bed. It wasn't long before I heard a gigantic THUD followed by a very hurt little baby cry. My first thought was that Kyla had dropped him on the floor (unfortunately, it wouldn't be the first time). I yelled upstairs and asked her what was going on, and she brought him out to me. He clearly had a circular carpet burn about the size of a silver dollar above his eye and he was a little pale. He was also whimpering and just laid on my shoulder when I took him from Kyla. I began questioning her, asking what had happened. At first, she tried to tell me that she didn't know. Finally, though, she confessed.

"I tried to frow him on the bed." WHAT?! Suddenly my heart started beating faster, as I realized what had happened. She had climbed into his crib, as I expected, picked him up, and thought that she would be able to throw him from the crib onto the bed. Obviously he didn't make it. My mind ran through worst case scenarios, such as he fell straight down onto his head, not even grazing the bed, and I began checking for serious injury. Kyla was hysterical. McKay, who was no longer crying, but still a little pale, seemed unaffected. But still, I made him sit up and perform his usual "tricks," such as reaching for things with both hands. He seemed okay. But I was still worried and so scared.

After a while, the carpet burn faded and normal coloring returned to his face. He was acting normally, eating and sleeping, and I finally breathed a sigh of relief when it seemed he was going to be just fine. I asked Kyla to reenact the event for me, so I could try to determine EXACTLY what had happened. She demonstrated how he hit the edge of the bed and slid to the floor. I hoped with all my might that that was actually what happened. She told me, "I'm not a good frower." No, I think not.

The next day, his left eye looked a little swollen, and he eventually developed some light green bruises newt to his eye, but mostly escaped the situation unscathed. And believe me, I know how lucky we are about that.


 The REAL black eye story happened while we were in St. George. Carter, yet again, let his cousin, Jayda pick on him. She pinched his cheek, and must have really had a hold on him, because it turned black and blue underneath the eye the next day. Then, to add injury to injury, when we got home, Kyla thought it would be funny to scare him while he was in the bathtub. However, this caused him to bump the top of his eye on the faucet. I have had a hard time getting a good picture of it, but you can see it a little bit here.


Yesterday, it had really turned some pretty colors. I needed Damon's help to get a good picture. I'm sure the girls are jealous of that natural eye shadow! And believe me, it sticks out much more than a sore thumb would have.


So...I guess you could say that preschool couldn't have come at a better time for Kyla. Or her black-eyed brothers. She started on Tuesday and had to have some pictures of her own. Nice pose here.


After changing her mind repeatedly about what she wanted to wear, she finally decided on this little dress. Definitely fitting, seeing how she loves wearing skirts and dresses so much.

 Here she is hanging up her backpack and saying good-bye to me. Clearly, she isn't nervous at all. So it's surprising that she burst into tears only moments later when I had to leave. It actually is a little surprising. Kyla usually doesn't have separation anxiety. Well, unless she is separating from Grandma Karen. Then it's quite bad. But she doesn't usually have a problem separating from me. It did break my heart a little to have to leave her there when she was upset. Fortunately, she had a fantastic day and has been so excited to go back every day since.


Thursday, September 01, 2011

It's good to have talented friends

At our ward play group a few weeks ago, Lori Harris took some pictures of all the kids. We should have paid her for her services, they turned out so good. So, thank you Lori! Now I only have to worry about getting a family picture before Christmas. :)


Kyla, age 4


Carter, 18 months


Have I mentioned that I am totally in love with this kid? I just think he is the cutest thing in my closet (literally). :)


 Damon, age 9


 McKay, 5 months




Allie, age 6


Love this one of Damon!